This has been my experience with narcissistic men. But from my experience this narcissism usually evolves from a love scorned. My friend and I were debating this one night because men have the stereotype of wanting to screw anything that walks by them in a short skirt, but it’s really not like that. I think just as people who have gotten picked on in their childhood, when men have their heartbroken, they feel they have to overcompensate for something that they feel is lacking. Look at how us women handle breakups, we tell ourselves that it is his loss and that we’re the shit and no one can touch us. That’s how guys do it too, but many of them go to the extreme and develop these strong “self esteems”.

For many of them, their high self confidence comes from fear of all that is different. If you’re afraid of something, you risk getting hurt. It’s an ignorance thing. They start to feel that they’re the shit and want others around them just like them. It’s the whole mentality that is behind racist and sexist groups.

So with all that said, I do feel that narcissistic men can associate sex with emotions and love, but only when they realize where their narcissism is coming from. I think so many of us have issues when it comes to sex and relationships that when we don’t address them before getting into a relationship or sexual encounter, it can cause a lot of harm to both parties.

Sorry I can go on and on about this seeing as this is what I studied in school: MALE SEXUAL BEHAVIOR! And again these are my opinions….