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quick tip: stop staring at girls

31Aug07

by Cash

The other night I was hanging out with an old friend I hadn’t seen in awhile. As we walked down the street, a trio of beautiful girls walked past us. I smiled at them and continued walking. My friend spun around, nudging me and all but started cat calling after them. I felt pretty awkward, and realized how much my study of socializing over the last year and a half has benefitted me.

It’s definitely been a learning process; I used to be a world class oogler. Nowadays though, I’m very careful to control my gaze.

Staring at girls, or making a ‘big deal’ out of their presence (be it on the street, out at the club, etc) is a one way ticket to ‘creepy’ town.

If you plan on making more than casual eye contact with a girl, you need to approach her and start a conversation almost immediately. This establishes you as someone who is *used* to being around women, which girls, especially beautiful ones, expect of a potential suitor.

Filed under: Socializing | Author: Cash |

5 Responses to “quick tip: stop staring at girls”

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1 Greg on Aug 31st, 2007 said:

I like it when girls stare at me…
2 Daniel Gonzales on Aug 31st, 2007 said:

Staring at guys will get generally get one a lot further.
3 goat on Aug 31st, 2007 said:

poor greg, too bad for him the eye that he is in fact referring to was her lazy one..
4 Greg on Aug 31st, 2007 said:

dear goat,

I like Chris better than you.
5 raquel on Sep 4th, 2007 said:

I know personally I hate it when guys stare at me in public. Come over and say hi, don’t sit there and be a creep by staring from afar. Don’t hoot and holler. Don’t tell me I’m so beautiful, just come over and TALK! Simple as that