I’m currently deep in the mud of planning my first spa themed holiday party.  Instead of the usual egg nog and cookies, I’ve decided to offer those invited a piece of relaxation.  Of all the resources I’ve found online, the DIY network has had the most impact.
The event’s primary focus is creating a spa-like, tranquil [...]

I received plenty of kick ass gifts for my birthday.  Some, I can openly talk about (Johnnie Walker Black gift set, complete with JW tumblers?  Hell yeah).  Others, um, I can’t.  But one late arrival on the scene has proven both addictive AND an excellent analogy for a key element of seduction.  Keeping it in [...]

I was pleasently surprised to find a copy of the Authentic Man Program’s “Foundations of Inner Game 1: The Power of Presence” in my mailbox for review.  The product is a 3 DVD set that breaks “inner game” (i.e. your mindset, belief system, etc) down into three important areas, each given an entire DVD’s worth of [...]

Talking, obviously, is a cornerstone of socializing.  However, simply keeping your mouth open more can make a big difference in people’s perception of you.  Lance Mason, seduction-svengali and founder of Pick Up 101 has an interesting DVD product out called “Physical Confidence” that addresses this issue.
In it he explains the complex interaction between physiology and [...]

An amazing Saturday night at one of my favorite clubs here in Denver has me thinking about the differences between a lounge and a nightclub.  In addition to the obvious difference of a dancefloor, I think nightclubs offer a richer experience overall.  Considering the audio / visual stimulation, as well as increased energy and hot girls [...]

According to a new study, 87% of men and women aspire towards being in a monogomous relationship (defined as “being in a relationship with one person at a time”).  Communication was cited as the most important factor in maintaining one. 
Although the source on this is a press release from a diamond company, I’d still say it rings true.   [...]

Although this list has plenty of humorous items; “I won’t try to change you”, “I love to feel a man’s beard on my chin.” one of the things mentioned is just sad:

I’ve known a wide variety of women in my day.  Girlfriends, family, friends, coworkers, bosses, etc. 
Although each girl is unique and delightful in their own way, one thing seems to bind them all together.  It’s a simple way you can accidentally (or I suppose, on purpose) piss them off:

Under normal circumstances, I find myself going thru a whole ’screening process’ with regards to potential girlfriends.  There is a list of qualifiers I’m looking for, many of which involve sharing similar interests.  Recently though, I’ve fallen under the spell of a girl who is my complete opposite in many ways.  Surprisingly, I find the [...]

Last night I found myself hitting up the town with one of my best friends and long time UM ally Zach.  In addition to being one of the most charismatic guys I know, (a true ‘natural’ in every sense of the word) he also has the distinct advantage of being a bartender. This grants him [...]

A new private members bar in London offers what can only be called a truly immersive experience.

The other night I was hanging out with an old friend I hadn’t seen in awhile.  As we walked down the street, a trio of beautiful girls walked past us.  I smiled at them and continued walking.  My friend spun around, nudging me and all but started cat calling after them.  I felt pretty awkward, [...]

I’m feeling an incredible pull towards a Manhattan weekend this fall. Thanks to amNY I’ve got more than a few ideas for fun.

Last week, I was leisurely checking my email in the afternoon when I got the familiar myspace email notifying me that I had a new message waiting.  Paying little attention I went about meandering the web.  A few minutes later I had 3 more myspace notifications.  Wtf? This warranted my immediate attention.
Getting to my inbox [...]

The Freakonomics blog is jumping on the pickup arts with a new entry dissecting negging.  While they get the technique completely wrong, calling it an insult rather than a playful tease, there is still interesting information in it.  In the article they feature a recent study about why men insult their intimate partners and the [...]

I’ve given away moving boxes and old yoga journals, sold synthesizers and concert tickets,  bought a dining room table and a bed, and found employment on craigslist.  It also entertains me.  Especially with rants like this.
After a long chat about life, politics, and your future career in interior design, you asked me, a man nearly [...]

The issue of whether or not bottle service is worth it is one we’ve been pondering for close to a year. After our jaw dropping experiences in Las Vegas however (albeit with comped bottle service), I think I’ve finally recognized that the benefits far outweigh the costs; both financially and otherwise.

It’s apparently the week of celebrating our raw manliness at Urban Monarch, especially with posts like these.  Seduction Labs helps us continue this theme with their Man Code.  50 rules and principles to help each man keep his man points.
Here are a few amendments.
1.  Thou shall not rent the movie Chocolat.  [UM Amendment: However, if [...]

My recent fascination with all things neurotransmitter (serotonin and dopamine specifically) led me to an interesting article about love (and lust’s) influence on the brain. Some of the quotes in article are quite telling indeed.

I like insulting people.  It appears as if I’m in good company with angry aussie.  He has created a list of insults with wit, grabbing quotes of famous leaders and thinkers.  A few of my favorites.
“Thank you for sending me a copy of your book; I’ll waste no time in reading it.”
Moses Hadas

A new book promises to deliver the “O” face within two weeks, even if she’s never had one before.