This is a repost from November 2006

Last night, I found myself clicking through the images of some bespoke pornography I have saved on my computer. Custom tailored for me, by someone far away, it’s one of the greatest presents I’ve ever received. I thought, aside from just flipping on the camera and getting to it, there has to be a better way.

Making personal adult videos is not just for the exhibitionist. Home made sex tapes can be essential for a long distance romance, added spice to an existing relationship, or purely for sexual exploration. Videos can also be used by couples to enhance the experience as well as a starting point to talk about what they like and what they really fucking like.

To get started, the basics are easy. All that is needed is a camera, a tripod, and lighting. The camera can be a simple digital camera, webcam, or video camera. There are many factors to consider including image quality, portability and cost. Ultimately you just need to capture the moment.

Second, the tripod is essential for a quick setup. Starting at just $20, stacking books and propping the camera at weird angles is completely avoided. The camera, webcam, or video camera is easily placed and positioned at a good angle, and you are ready.

Last, and arguably most important, is lighting. This is the most often overlooked area in homemade productions. Professional lights are easy to obtain but the DIYer can use anything from simple daylight simulating blue lights to portable flood lights from home depot. Shadows and hot spots are the enemy of a good shot.

With all the information available on posing and shooting, it’s not all about technique. If you’re making videos with an established partner, it’s more about a personal connection. Simply seeing your partner, all flaws accepted, is enough. Regina Lynn, wired sex editor, puts things in perspective with this quote.

I have seen a lot of cock in my life, and if I’m attracted to you and fond of you I’ll want to see yours, but as part of a more holistic experience. I want to see your face, your biceps, your legs. I will ask you to show me various poses, angles, items that you own, and I’ll do the same. I try to find fun things to put on the cam. I wear sexy outfits. I create silly visual puns.

Pose Like the Star You Are

To help you get started here are a few additional quick tips:

• Shave and trim before shooting
• Cover up leg marks with stockings
• Use makeup, but not stage/film quantities
• Set the mood while you prepare yourself, feelings come out in photos
• Use sex videos and pictures to mimic and act out for inspiration
• When solo, use remote controls, self timers, and editing
• Find a personal balance between focusing on the camera and focusing on the act
• Make full use of available props, toys, and costumes
• If the exhibitionist inside starts clawing their way out, make sure you’re down with 2257

Additional Resources:

• Ask Metafilter: Good camcorder for porn
• Budget DIY Lighting System
• Lighting 101